Reader's Dilemma: He Wants to Have a Threesome. And I Don't!
Perhaps you two could come up with a new fantasy you'll both be comfortable with. You could meet up at a restaurant or hotel and pretend to be strangers? Then you two could have hot, sort of anonymous sex with each other. A few months back, one reader told us all about the "pretend" threesome she had with her boyfriend. And only her boyfriend.
If you don't agree to having a three-way, will he be more likely to cheat? Hard to say, but I hope not. Has he suggested he might find his kicks elsewhere if you don't give in to the threesome? If he's threatening you with this sort of behavior, drop him like a rock.
One last thing to consider: remember in high school when teenage boys often pressured their girlfriends into doing things they weren't always ready for? If you could go back and give your high school self a bit of insight about that sort of dilemma, what would you say? Now place yourself back in the present. Imagine your future self (let's say the you of 2021) could share a gem a wisdom about this very predicament. What do you think she'd say?
Ladies, have you ever been in a similar situation? What sort of advice do you have for our reader? How would you react if a boyfriend were pressuring you to do something you weren't comfortable with? And how do you feel about threesomes?
Dating dilemmas aplenty!
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