Guyroglyphics: A Dude Translates What Men Say Into What Men Mean

He means: (if you've dated less than six months) "I've lost interest in you."

He means: (if you've dated longer than that) "I like you, but I need to focus on other things."

Usually, this is the classic guy blow-off, but there are exceptions. "Don't forget the big picture," cautions Steve Santagati, who offers dating advice at badboysfinishfirst.com. If you've dated for a few months and your guy is usually there for you, don't hit the panic button over his recent short bouts of inattention. "Just because we get distracted by our jobs doesn't mean we don't care anymore," says Santagati.