19 Best Remote Control Vibrators for Everyone in 2023

Adding a sex toy to solo and partnered play alike can lead to fireworks—and with the best remote control vibrators, you can even get yourself off hands-free. These suction toys, panty vibrators, and butt plugs can be controlled through the magic of tech like Bluetooth and app connectivity, leaving you unrestricted to play with other feel-good parts of your body. And yes, they make fabulous sex toys for couples.

“Orgasms actually take place in the brain, which is one reason why you don’t have to be touching yourself with hands to have one,” Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations, tells Glamour. Certified sex coach and sexologist Gigi Engle calls that intense focus on pleasure “erotic hypnosis.” It’s basically a “guided meditation that has a sexual vibe to it, so that you can get your brain sexually turned on enough to orgasm,” she explains. “Your brain and body are super-closely connected, and sometimes, if you can get your mind turned on enough by thinking about your sexual fantasies, your body can follow.”

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Plenty of phone and Bluetooth-enabled vibrators also work as long-distance sex toys, considering they can be controlled from anywhere in the world with a smartphone app. If you’re down for a sex game, you can let a partner take over the reins, either from the same bed or another country entirely. Both Queen and Engle also suggest using furniture to get yourself off. (We give you full permission to hump your sex pillow to your brain/heart/clit’s content, especially when there’s vibration involved.)

So which picks are the best vibrators for hands-free play? These are the absolute best remote control vibrators for every price point, and body, according to experts, reviewers, and plenty of our own testing. Your sex life will never be the same.