17 Best BDSM Toys: Bondage Gear & Kinky Accessories

Want to give spanking a shot? You’ll have to play and see which you prefer: a flogger or a paddle. If you choose to give a paddle a whirl, know that there are different types of paddles and they vary in intensity. You can choose a paddle made from leather, wood, plastic, silicone, stainless steel, rubber, and even glass. This rubber paddle is made from high-quality  material and feels smooth when making contact with skin. However, if used intensely, all paddles (no matter what material they’re made of) can sting, especially rubber. Talk to your partner and agree on how much force you want to use.